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Hope Beyond Violence-Creating Safer Communities for Women

In this women’s lives, women’s voices feature, we will delve into the issue of domestic violence and look at the rise of femicide in Ireland, which is not defined in Irish law. Femicide is a growing social issue in our society and we need to create awareness around it and start calling it what it is, the gendered murder of women or girls.  Written by WCI-Donegal Development Worker Rhona Hannigan


Domestic violence, sometimes referred to as domestic abuse or intimate partner violence, is a serious and pervasive issue in Ireland, affecting individuals across all ages, genders, and backgrounds. It involves patterns of coercive, controlling, threatening, degrading, or violent behaviour which may include physical, emotional, sexual, and financial abuse, typically by a partner, ex-partner, or family member.

In Ireland, domestic violence has historically been a hidden problem, often shrouded in stigma and silence. However, increased public awareness, changes in legislation, and the work of advocacy organisations have brought the issue into greater focus over recent decades.


Women represent the most recorded victims in Ireland. Almost a third of all women have experienced physical and, or sexual violence by their intimate partner. According to data from Women’s Aid and the Central Statistics Office (CSO), thousands of cases are reported annually, however the majority of incidents remain unreported due to fear, shame, or lack of trust in authorities.

According to Safe Ireland:

“In Ireland, 1 in 3 women have experienced psychological violence from a partner at some point in their lives and 1 in 6 have experienced physical or sexual violence by a partner since the age of 15.


According to the United Nations, in 2023, there were approximately 51,100 women and girls murdered worldwide by their intimate partners or other family members. This means that, on average, 140 women or girls are killed every day by someone close to them. This is the ultimate and extreme culmination of continued acts of violence against victims.

Femicide represents the dramatic end-point on a spectrum of violence against women. Femicide is driven by discrimination against women and girls, unequal power relations, gender stereotypes or harmful social norms. It is the most extreme and brutal manifestation of violence against women and girls which occurs on a continuum of multiple and related forms of violence, at home, in workplaces, schools or public spaces. Which includes intimate partner violence, sexual harassment and other forms of sexual violence, harmful practices and trafficking. As many as 38% of all murders of women are committed by intimate partners, according to the World Health Organisation.


From a statistical perspective, it is difficult to define numbers of femicide in Ireland as there is no working definition. The European Institute for Gender Equality (EIGE) defines femicide as ‘killing of a woman by an intimate partner and the death of a woman as a consequence of a practice that is harmful to women”. It is understood that an intimate partner can be a former or current spouse or partner, whether or not the
perpetrator shares or has shared the same residence with the victim’.

In a joint report by UNODC and UN Women in 2023, more women and girls were killed in 2022 even as overall homicide numbers fall. The research recorded that 89,000 women and girls were intentionally killed globally in 2022, the highest rate in twenty years. The true numbers are likely to be much higher as records only relate to intimate partner killings. Murders of women that occur as a result of rape, sexual violence, honor killings or female genital mutilation are recorded as murders and therefore are not attributed to femicide.


In a Garda report, “Domestic, Sexual and Gender Based Violence”, released in 2022, males and females experience violent crimes differently. In the case of female victims there is a close link with domestic abuse and sexual violence crimes. Between 2019 and 2021 a motive attributed to domestic abuse was recorded for 90% of women who were victims of Murder or manslaughter. Whilst Male victims also experience domestic abuse, they are more likely to be subject to violence by offenders unknown to them or in incidents not relating to domestic abuse.


The graph below by An Garda Síochána shows the annual number of Murder/Manslaughter/ Infanticides incidents between (2013–2021)


Domestic violence remains a critical issue in Irish society, requiring ongoing awareness, prevention, and support efforts. While legal reforms and advocacy have made progress, continued work is needed to ensure that all victims feel safe to come forward, receive protection, and rebuild their lives free from abuse.

Building Community Solidarity

Between October and November 2025, Women’s Collective Ireland–Donegal worked with different groups in Donegal. These included the Early Birds Pettigo Women’s Group, Donegal Town Crafting for Connection Group, Rossnakill Community Hub, AIB staff from Donegal Town, Killybegs, Ballyshannon and Ballybofey, members of An Garda Síochána Donegal, and the ATU Donegal Empower Her Society.

The project highlights the reality that 1 in 3 women experience gender-based violence. It aims to remind women that they are not alone, that support is available, and that communities have a role to play in challenging violence and creating a safer future for women and girls.

Each group created handcrafted clay sunflowers under the motto:

“Be like a sunflower, so that even on the darkest days you stand tall and find the sunlight.”

The sunflowers were first displayed at the 2025 Donegal Rape Crisis Centre Art Exhibition in Letterkenny. The exhibition theme was “Hope – Where the Light Enters. Together we rise, together we heal” and took place as part of the 16 Days of Activism, creating a supportive space for survivors and promoting community solidarity.

The collection, made up of over 40 unique handmade clay sunflowers, is now on display at the AIB branch in Donegal Town over the Christmas period until the New Year. Each sunflower represents hope, light and solidarity, and carries messages of encouragement for women who have experienced gender-based violence. Members of the public are encouraged to visit the display while in Donegal Town. The AIB branch is open Monday to Friday, 10am to 4pm, and is closed on bank holidays.


Supports in Donegal

Please know you are not alone, there are people you can talk to. If you or any one you know have been affected by domestic abuse you can find support with the following services;

If you or someone you know is a victim of domestic abuse, please contact 999/112 or your local An Garda Síochána Donegal Station.

Donegal Domestic Violence Services – DDVS provides a 24hr helpline and emergency refuge accommodation as well as outreach support for women and children throughout the county of Donegal. Contact: 1800 262677 (24hr) Freephone

Donegal-Rape Crisis Centre offer one to one counselling, support and advice to those aged 12+ who have been affected by recent & historic sexual violence in a confidential, safe and friendly environment. Also provide support to family, friends and supporters. Contact: 1800 44 88 44 Freephone

Donegal Women’s Centre offer a domestic abuse trauma counselling & psychotherapy service is delivered in their centre and outreach centres in community settings. Contact: 074 91 24985

Lifeline Inishowen provides a community response in Inishowen which offers a first step to support women and children who are experiencing Domestic Violence: physical, emotional, sexual and financial abuse. Contact: 074 93 73232 or 086 0650 353

National Support Contact details

Dublin Rape Crisis Centre (Rape Crisis Help Ireland): 24 Hour Helpline on 1800 778888

Women’s Aid Ireland: Freephone Helpline on 1800 341 900 operates 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, and provides support and information to callers experiencing abuse from intimate partners.

References

Measuring femicide in Ireland

Five essential facts to know about femicide

Research from UNODC and UN Women

Femicide in Ireland 2012-2023

FUNDAMENTAL RIGHTS REPORT –2025

Donegal Women want to be active and connected to their community

In this women’s lives, women’s voices feature, the Women’s Collective Ireland- Donegal team share with you our recent research findings on the community needs of women in the Donegal. WCI-Donegal Team; Rhona Hannigan Development Worker, Sinead Doherty Project Worker and Danielle Bonner Project Coordinator. Photos by Tori Tinney

It’s been a busy year for the Women’s Collective Ireland- Donegal team, in between our planning and the delivery of a range of courses, workshops and events, this year we have also been researching the community needs of women in Donegal. This research began in December 2024, when we launched a women’s needs assessment survey which provided an opportunity for women living in Donegal to express their community needs and share life experiences. 

572 women aged 18 and above took part in the assessment which was carried out through an online survey. The findings from this survey now provides us with important insight into the lives of women living in Donegal and highlights the diverse needs of women in rural Ireland. 

Women living across the county took the time to share with WCI-Donegal their experiences with mental health, access to local support services, their views on what’s missing for women in the county and their experiences of gender inequality. They spoke openly about mental health, pressure at home and work, lack of affordable childcare, and gaps in community opportunities for women in the county. More than half (52%) said they experience anxiety. Many also reported loneliness, low mood and feeling overwhelmed, especially those in their 30s and 40s, many of whom are juggling work and caring responsibilities. 

A common theme among the respondents was the need for a welcoming, women-only space in their community where they could drop in for a chat, a class or a cuppa, somewhere safe, informal and friendly to connect, learn or simply take a break. Others expressed a need for better access to local workshops, creative programmes, and everyday practical support. 

While most respondents didn’t know of a Women’s Group in their area, nearly three-quarters said they’d like to join one. Many women also said that gender inequality continues to impact their lives, from taking on more caring responsibilities at home while also working, to facing discrimination at work and feeling unsafe in public spaces.


Women’s Collective Donegal project coordinator Danielle Bonner spoke with Ocean FM about the importance of creating spaces for women, the work WCI-Donegal is planning in response to needs assessment findings and the importance of programme funding to support the community needs of women in Donegal.


Women’s responses also suggest that there are gaps in current community engagement and highlight there is a need to utilise and better connect women to the opportunities that already exist in the community. 


Women’s Collective Donegal project coordinator Danielle Bonner highlights what we can do to address these challenges with Highland Radio


Speaking with Greg Hughes on the Nine til Noon Show on Highland Radio about the survey findings

The survey findings will help shape WCI-Donegal’s work, ensuring that our work is grounded in the lived realities of women in Donegal. While the experiences and information shared by women in the survey provides local community organisations and decision-making bodies valuable insight and data to help inform their work allowing us all to better support women to engage and participate in the community, support their wellbeing and empowerment. 

Women’s Collective Ireland-Donegal would like to thank and acknowledge all the women who took the time to complete our women’s needs assessment. Their time and insightful input are very much appreciated. 


You can read a full copy of the needs assessment report by downloading it here.


WCI-Donegal are always looking for women to share their stories and looking for women to write features on topics of their choice which we will profile as part of our Women’s Lives, Women’s Voices’ series.

Supporting Women 40+ Through Change, One Honest Talk at a Time

Jacqueline Toner yoga

When I first began teaching yoga, I knew I wanted to help people feel better in their bodies, but over the years, that calling has grown into something far deeper. As a woman in midlife myself, I’ve seen how this stage of life can feel like a storm and a sunrise all at once.

So many of the women I work with—whether in yoga classes, workshops, or private sessions—are quietly navigating a thousand tiny shifts: sleep disruption, changing hormones, body aches, weight gain, brain fog, burnout, anxiety, mood swings, ageing parents, empty nests, and career transitions. It’s no wonder we’re tired.

That’s why I decided to create a new space for conversation, community, and compassionate education—and so my Mindful Natters podcast was born, with the first series, Sweet Dreams, Strong Women. These talks aren’t polished, perfect, or preachy. They’re real, heartfelt chats with wise people who have something valuable to share. Each one is designed to empower, inform, and gently remind you that you’re not alone, and you don’t have to do it all on your own.

🌿The Power of Honest Conversation

The idea for this series came from the mat—from hearing time and time again that “I didn’t sleep well again last night,” or “I can’t shift this tiredness,” or “I don’t feel like myself anymore.”

Yoga offers so much, but I know we also need support off the mat—in our kitchens, bedrooms, workplaces, and hearts. We need trustworthy, down-to-earth advice from people who understand midlife not just academically, but personally. So, I reached out to some incredible health professionals in my wider circle, and together we began weaving the threads of a supportive tapestry—one conversation at a time.

🎧 In Case You Missed Them: Sweet Dreams, Strong Women: The First 4 Conversations

Here are a few highlights from the series so far—each one focused on a key area that many of us struggle with in midlife.

💬 #1 Sleep Struggles & Solutions: with Reflexologist Joanne Gillen
Joanne and I talked about why sleep becomes so tricky after 40, and how reflexology can help reset the nervous system. She also shared practical tips for creating a wind-down ritual, plus self-massage points you can try at home.
👉 Listen to the talk with Joanne

🥗 #2 Nourishing Food for Fatigue with Laura Fergus, Inner Harmony Health
Laura and I explored the link between nutrition and hormones, why protein and magnesium are key in midlife, and how to eat for energy, not exhaustion. Her advice is sensible, kind, and doable.
👉 Listen to the talk with Laura

💪 #3 Strength Training for Midlife Women with Emmet and Maria Rushe from Rushe Fitness
We discuss why lifting weights is vital after 40, especially for maintaining bone health, regulating metabolism, and improving mood, and how to get started safely and confidently.
👉 Listen to the talk with Rushe Fitness

🧘‍♀️# 4 Mindfulness for Sleep with Mary Kara, from Angels Cove and Donegal Mindfulness
Mary talks about how mindfulness calms the busy mind at bedtime, lowers stress, and helps you feel more present in your day-to-day life.
👉 Listen to the talk with Mary

There’s something powerful about hearing another woman say, “Me too.” These episodes are short, insightful, and full of grace, just like the women (and man) who joined me.

✨Why This Series Matters

I believe we all need permission to pause. To rest. To be soft and strong. These conversations are an invitation to come home to yourself, to honour your body as it changes, and to lean into support when you need it.

They’re also part of a bigger picture—one where we create spaces for midlife women to gather, grow, grieve and glow. Whether that’s in a yoga class, an online circle, a podcast chat, or something even more special…

🌸 Join Me in Person: Journey to the Heart Retreat in September at Lough Mardal Lodge, Co. Donegal
If you’ve felt the call to step away, to unplug and reconnect with yourself more deeply, I’d love to invite you to my upcoming Journey to the Heart retreat this September.

Set in the wild, soulful landscape of Lough Mardal Lodge, this weekend is your chance to slow down, listen inward, and reconnect with what truly matters. This retreat is especially for women over 40 who are craving rest, reflection, and reconnection. Over three nourishing days, we’ll explore gentle yoga, guided meditations, restful rituals, and honest conversations—just like the ones in the podcast, but held in person and presence.

📅12–14 September 2025
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Location: Lough Mardal Lodge, Co. Donegal

🌿For more information:
🔗 BOOK YOUR SPOT HERE: subscribepage.io/SMoexo
Spots are limited and do tend to fill quickly. If your heart is whispering yes, I’d be honoured to hold space for you.
You’ll leave feeling grounded, energised, and deeply supported.

💖 A Final Word

This season of life is not a problem to be fixed—it’s a transition to be honoured. My hope is that these podcast conversations and the work I continue to share offer you companionship on the path. Whether you’re sleeping poorly, feeling unsteady, trying to build strength, or just trying to remember who you are, please know this: you’re not broken. You’re becoming.

I’d love for you to listen in, share with a friend, or reach out if a topic resonates. And if you’re feeling the nudge to dive deeper, join me this September in Donegal. We’ll move, breathe, and root into our radiance together.

With warmth, gratitude, and strength,
Jacqueline

www.healingflowyoga.ie | Healing Flow Yoga Instagram & Facebook
Email: jacqueline@healingflowyoga.ie

About Jacqueline
CEO, Healing Flow Yoga / Yoga Teacher & Yoga Therapist | Calm Cultivator | Midlife Mentor
Jacqueline Toner is an experienced yoga therapist and mental health facilitator based in Donegal, Ireland. She teaches weekly yoga and wellbeing classes both in person and online, specialising in supporting women over 40 through life’s transitions—helping them find calm amidst the chaos, build strength gently, and reclaim their energy. Her classes combine mindful movement, breathwork, restorative yoga, and deep relaxation, all designed to leave you feeling grounded, nourished, and empowered. She’s the creator of the Sweet Dreams, Strong Women talk series and will host her upcoming retreat, Journey to the Heart, at Lough Mardal Lodge in September 2025.
When she’s not teaching, you’ll find her singing with her ukulele orchestra, playing guitar, or walking barefoot in nature.

Donegal Women Embrace the Power of Creativity

“Creativity is a superpower”

This women’s lives, women’s voices feature delve’s into the power of getting creative, looking at the many ways this is achieved and the benefits associated. Written by Rhona Hannigan Development Worker for the Women’s Collective Ireland- Donegal


“Creativity is Intelligence Having Fun” Albert Einstein.

Einstein believes that we were all born with intelligence, with this intelligence we should have fun and be creative with it! Creativity engages the mind. It helps a person to absorb knowledge more easily making learning more efficient and enables alternative ways of thinking. Most importantly though it connects us to ourselves. In a fast paced world it is increasingly vital that we spend time recharging the batteries and dare I say having some “Me Time”


Crafting is for everyone, regardless of age or gender. Research shows that any crafting activity can prove therapeutic. It improves mood and reduces stress levels, while also improving self-confidence. Studies have shown that crafting reduces many health disorders from chronic pain to PTSD, depression, insomnia and anxiety. It is beneficial for older people in improving motor skills and helps prevent cognitive decline, but importantly, crafting is fun and sociable. Social connectedness is a key component of good mental wellness.


Crafting is an excellent way to relax and unwind. The repetitive motions of activities like knitting, painting, or woodworking can have a meditative effect, reducing stress and promoting a sense of calm. This “flow state” can help distract from daily worries, offering a break from the fast-paced world and allowing your mind to focus on something creative.


Engaging in crafting encourages creative expression. Whether you’re painting a picture, sewing a piece of clothing, or building something with your hands, crafting stimulates your imagination. It allows you to experiment with colors, materials, and design, which can also improve problem-solving skills and foster innovation.


Creating something with your hands provides a deep sense of accomplishment. Whether it’s finishing a quilt, a model, or a piece of pottery, seeing your project come to life gives you a tangible sense of achievement. This can boost self-esteem and provide motivation to take on new challenges.


Crafting often requires concentration and attention to detail. Whether you’re following a pattern or figuring out how to complete a project, crafting improves your ability to focus and be patient. These skills can carry over into other areas of life, helping you stay engaged in tasks and challenges.


 Arts and crafts are a way of expressing emotions in a creative way, when immersed in an activity nothing else seems to matter. Your worries are suspended, time is a concept, you forget yourself. The act of crafting encourages mindfulness—a focused, present mindset. As you work with your hands, you become more attuned to the moment, which can help improve overall well-being. It’s an opportunity to take a break from digital screens and engage in an activity that fosters a deep connection to the process.


Crafting can stimulate brain function, particularly in areas like problem-solving and spatial awareness. Projects that require designing, measuring, and visualizing end results engage the brain in ways that help maintain cognitive flexibility and memory


According to therapist Victoria Schindler, creative benefits are similar to those of meditation, which have proven to reduce stress and fight inflammation. Our bodies are in a constant state of stress, causing the “fight or flight” response which causes the many symptoms of stress. Stress is often flippantly dismissed or expected in a busy life but if not addressed it can lead to feeling overwhelmed, being irritable and lacking concentration. It can cause anxiety or wanting to avoid people or places. Many peoples experience an increase or decrease in appetite, sleep disruption or fatigue. Sometimes we use drugs, food, alcohol or smoking as a way of coping. Constant stress can weaken our immune system slowing the body’s ability to heal, making us more susceptible to illnesses and infections. Long term stress often results in aches and pain, headaches or debilitating migraines.


Our lives become a vicious circle, no motivation to exercise, socialise or embrace life, and this can lead to social isolation and loneliness. Imagine if there was a simple, fun even engaging way of breaking the cycle. Creative responses activate the parasympathetic nervous system, this brings the “fight or flight” response right down, instilling a sense of calm within.


Crafting can also be a social activity. Whether you’re attending a craft class, joining a local crafting group, or sharing your work online, crafting provides opportunities for connection. Sharing your creations and learning new techniques can foster a sense of community and belonging.


However, many feels that they are not creative and lack the confidence to try a new craft or even something that they may have enjoyed before. And often participants will say “I’m not crafty or I don’t think I can do that”. As a creative facilitator the most important part of a workshop is helping participants with the confidence to succeed and feel less anxious or isolated.


Here at the Women’s Collective Ireland-Donegal we run a variety of crafting programmes from one off classes like jewellery making or soap making to a series of workshops incorporating a variety of crafts. We work throughout Donegal and collaborate with other organisations. One of which is the HSE and their “Connecting for Life” programme, a National strategy to create awareness around suicide by helping to improve mental health and wellbeing in the community.


Through this funding we have been able to offer four creative wellness programmes, in different areas of the county addressing issues around peri-menopause and menopause. Women in this category are at an increased risk of suicidal behaviours especially in areas of social deprivation. The programmes we have run already have been very beneficial to participants, along with a weekly workshop we provided online webinars with a menopause coach who provided expert advice on many aspects associated with peri-menopause/menopause.


Below are some of the feedback from participants who benefited from the programme.

“We are on our lass class and oh my God it has been a beautiful course, talking while crafting was amazing and the bonus, we took home something that we handmade, we were actually like kids coming out of playschool so proud of our crafts.”

“If I had known that the course was crafting, I would not have joined, as I would have felt that I couldn’t do it, but anyone can do crafting and I did find the course very relaxing”

“I have thoroughly enjoyed the past 8-week course. The crafting provided a lovey distraction when talking about the menopause.”

Tap into your crafty side with Women’s Collective Ireland-Donegal

Crafting is not only fun and rewarding, but it also offers a wide array of benefits for your mental, emotional, and physical health. Whether you’re picking up a new hobby or returning to an old one, crafting provides a fulfilling, therapeutic outlet for creativity, mindfulness, and self-expression. We know we have done our job if at the end of each workshop women leave with a sense of pride at the amazing things that they created and with the added confidence to try different skills.


WCI-Donegal are always looking for women to share their stories and looking for women to write features on topics of their choice which we will profile as part of our Women’s Lives, Women’s Voices’ series.